Addicted

: Dependent psychologically and physically on something habit forming;

Addiction is a bad habit that ruins health physically as well as mentally and harms relationships or breaks financially. Drug (heroin) addicts are on the top of all addictions and think about them how did they caught in such a disastrous habit. Most drug addict will say the same things that they first tried it in sack of pleasure and took it easy next time they tried and try turned into habit. The attraction of addict will not let the addict get rid of drug. Typical unpleasant feeling of addict will demand for drugs. The addiction is not only limited to the drugs. There are some more addict :

• Alcoholic addict -excessive intake of alcoholic drinks leading to a breakdown in health.
• Tobacco addict - smoking, chewing tobacco.
• Food addict - excessive consumption of food, obesity.
• Computer addict - Computer games addict, facebook addict, porn addict,
• Video game addict - Play Station, Saga, Nintendo and many more games.
• Television viewer - watching TV serial, cartoon and other programmes.
• Gambler addict - Casino addict, Stock market trading addict.
• Lust addiction - addict of making and thinking about sex all the time.
• Money addict - think money, dream money and talk money.

Addicted person always think it is easy for him to leave the habit but in fact it's not that easy to quit habit. I used to smoke for many years and quit smoking. My body reacted on that make me feel eat instead of smoking, I raised almost 5 kilo of weight within 15 day of quitting smoking. So, simply I replaced my addiction from smoking to food. There are many more addictions than listed above, every person should take a break of routine life to get rid of any routine habits. Like travelling for week or 10 days will put you out of all routine habits.

Any habit that goes beyond its limit, at extreme level is not good at all, like you love eating rice, but if you extremely eat rice, can cause trouble for you. It's all about the balancing the habits, taking alcohol is not bad but limit for taking alcohol is must. Don't even try or test to take anything in limit because human brains are designed to go beyond.

Speed

: Move fast, Rush;
: The rate at which object move in particular time;

Speed matters. Speed have fun. We are all part of instant coffee generation and slow things are boring to us. What speed your computer have? or what's your broadband speed? And if you got a fast computer, with a fast connection, then your attitude changes. Now, you demand that everything happens instantly. Your sensitivity towards performance goes way up. Slow is not our option and nobody likes to wait. A second is really long time to wait, now google gives us our searches in 10th part of the second.

What speed you drive your car or bike? Do you feel driving it fun? If you are driving in a slow car or bike, you accept that you will have a pretty unimpressive driving experience. I used to drive bike at high speed on highways and even in city in traffic. That thrilled me always. Thrill had some kind of impression on my brain, it relax the brain system and risk of driving at high speed looks worth taking. Later-on 20 miles to work everyday in my car, I never thought to drive slow and the loud music was always there. I would also get increasingly frustrated when people would drive slow and keep me from driving fast, or cut me off. Driving was a stressful experience.

Yesterday, I drove almost 70 kilometres to go nearby town and I had plenty of time and I decided not to drive overtaking other vehicles. That was new experience to me as I was relaxed all the time, my stress level was really down and I wondered that it did not take much longer time than before. I learned a lesson, if I am always in a hurry to get places, when will we get to our destination and finally be happy? It is better idea of getting ready early and leave early and enjoy the driving, listening good music. Life is a journey - make it a pleasant one.

Nano

: Very small, One billionth part, 1/1,000,000,000;
: Small, Cheapest car of India by Tata Motors:

I remembered the news someone from Maharastra who received first Tata nano car could not find words and tears fell out from his eyes. Now after four months, we understood why he cried, probably he was shocked looking at the car and noise made by car. The Nano by Tata Motors is a cheapest car in India, Ratan Tata's dream to give Indian a cheapest car. The Nano was announced at the cost of INR 1,00,000. Two wheeler scooter and bikes are available at 50 to 60 thousand of rupees.
In fact, Nano, fully equipped car on road price is almost 2 lakhs of rupees and no Nano is available less than Rs. 1,35,000 inclusive of all taxes. The Nano's production unit's are in SEZ and SEZ have special benefits of excise duty and other taxes. Nano have 624 cc engine in back of the car and make the typical noise like 'old Bajaj Super' Model.Mostly the car are bought as a symbol of status all over the world. With the name of cheapest car Nano, there is no 'Symbol of status' left in that. It looks like someone is short of money and he has only a choice to buy a Nano. Nano are hard to find around the School and colleges as it has a cheap reputation. Actually, if you want to buy cheaper you will have choice to buy a second hand car, that will cost you much cheaper than the Nano and better performance car. Second hand small cars are available from Rs. 30.000 to 2,00,000 which is better range than Nano.

Wedding

: A ceremony of marrying;
: A social ceremonies under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies voluntarily joined for life (or until divorce);

16th May 2010, Sunday one of the hottest day at 45 degree Celsius (113 Fahrenheit) temperature and more than 20,000 weddings alone in Ahmedabad because of Akhatrij special lucky day as per Hindu Panchang to get married. More than two hundred thousand wedding on Sunday in India and Indian family system will encourage all the married couple for the birth of new babies within a year or so. Is it the right family system do we have? where are we headed to?

I had couple of invitation and have to attend wedding on such a hot day. I think no more than 1% of family in India can afford air-conditioned marriage hall & dinning hall. So, rest of all marriages are like close to hot furnace. These are mostly arranged marriage by the parents of marrying couple and all expenses are made as per the capacity of their parents and they have very very big families to invite. Some of the parents are spending up to 10 years of their saving on the marriages. Because they have big families, they have not other choice than to invite them either they can afford it or not. Numbers of reason that's make the wedding uncomfortable :
Large number of Invited people.

• No organised calculation for number invited people.
• Affordability for wedding, weather.
• Uncomfortable transport system to reach marriage destination.
• Heavy - shiny itching clothes / ornaments.
• Mismanagement for food and drinking water facilities for overcrowded people.
• No attractions for kids.

The social responsibility push every one to attend the marriage compulsorily and it is difficult to understand what kind of fun is that to attend wedding. What options we can have for better organisation of such a social celebration? We can have very good organised planning, but the matter comes to large orthodox families and affordability are the most priority for the Wedding Planning Checklist. If someone have big money to spend on their big families, It's easy to manage everything else. But hard worked money, saved for last 5-10 years and spending on a one day must be spend carefully.

Trouble

: A Problem;
: To agitate mentally or spiritually -disturb, worry;
: A situation that creates inconvenience, pain or exertion;

Stay up to date on the results : Create an email alert for trouble,

That's what Google replied at the bottom of the google page, when I asked for the search of trouble. Not a bad idea at all, if I receive email alert for upcoming troubles and It will be easy to solve. There are number of troubles in the life. But let sort it out in three factors :

• Physical - Trouble of getting sick, permanent disease or scratches on the body of fighting.
• Mental - Worry or tension for relationship or about something that give you sleepless nights.
• Financial - Trouble of job, having over due loans, personal debt.

Most of the troubles are self created and our incapability solve the troubles. -A self created trouble : Take a big loan for new car, in anticipation to pay the loan installation through present job/work. Car will get de-valued faster that paying instalments of the loan. In case trouble comes up with job or work, there are chances of failure of paying loan as one has to bear routine expenses. But nobody like to accept failure and in hope of getting new job/work he will take more personal loans and invite the trouble for sure. Accumulate loans will take away his car and credit.

In this case, person make mistake to buy a new car by loan instead he can buy old car at 10% to 20% of cost or he can delayed buying new car till he collect some money. Second, as he had troubled with job, he had to take quick decision to get rid of loans and should not take further loans in hope to earn money in future. I have seen many people trapped in trouble and file bankruptcy due to their own incapability to solve the troubles.

In this case, financial trouble comes first and jobless person gets mentally desperate and worried may harm personal relationship. Eventually high tense will lead to physically damages.
90% problems comes out through financial trouble and money can solve the most of the troubles.

How to stay away from most of the troubles :Remind your old troubles that you had faced years ago. Think about your situation again, what you were thinking when you was trapped in trouble and how tense you were. Did your tense or worry solved the problem? And now observe the solution now, it will not be that tough to solve the matter, as you and your brain has grown up. The same way you will find easy solution of any trouble, if somebody else have a trouble. That can be a technique now to solve troubled situation -Don't get emotional with problem, solve the trouble like somebody else have trouble.

To stay away from trouble, regular excise helps keep the body fit and fit body will help you to keep brain healthy. And your good thoughts will help to maintain good relations and also keep away from any drug habits, alcohol or tobacco habits. Good habit will bring financial strength. This way you can stay out of trouble of all three factors we discussed above. More techniques are :

• Get trustworthy people around you.
• Stay away from trouble maker.
• Think positive, use common sense.
• Take care of your health.

One of my friend always eager to know the trouble of any computer software or hardware he have and passionate to solve the trouble.

Write

: To Produce literary work ;
: To synchronise brain to transfer data with paper/computer through pen/keyboard to create letter, article,story, blog, ;

Before couple of months ago I hardly wrote anything except my accounts. Now I have started writing Blogs and I have created 7 different blogs and more than 50 posts and never bothered if I have any visitors on blog or not. But to be very frank I feel like getting free of my thoughts since I have start writing and second, instead of discussing and arguing, it's better idea to compose the arguments and discussion on blog. The brain has constant process of thinking and thoughts are produced out of thinking process, one of my thought has created this article 'Write'. I am the one who pick up the topic and keep on thinking on that constantly arranging words and paragraphs and sit on computer and start typing but thoughts never stops, sometimes I have stops long to re-think the article. The passionate writing habits forcing my mind to think in systematic manner, which has improved my thinking power and pushed the positive thoughts. Analysing new ideas, sorting out troubles, emotional thoughts can be well controlled and manageable with the proper process of thinking thorough writing.

Sometimes, I get ashamed and annoyed on my own writing and I feel like what will other think on my writing. That make me feel even embarrassed, so I hardly told anybody about my blogging. But what make me difference if they know about it and throw negative comment (orally ) on that. I should definitely suggest them to comment on the Blog. ( I don't believe in comment moderation except vulgarity ) I remember a guy, who was engaged in revealing how desperately unqualified students can be. More interestingly, he shows how normally literate professionals are also handicapped when attempting to write on random subject. Moreover, remember you fell down the first time you tried to walk and you almost drowned the first time you tried to swim and failures are not subject to worry, keep on trying.

What are the good side of bad writing ?

1. Can provide few laughs and also show the writer what mistake not to make.
2. Bad writing help us learn what effective writing and what is not.
3. The more you practice on your own mistakes, the better a writer you will learn how to be.
4. With little more attention, a writer can change a terrible piece into a beautiful work of art.
   

Emergency

: A serious situation or occurrence that happens unexpectedly and demands immediate action. ;
: A condition of urgent need of action / assistance for Police, Medical, Fire ;

Have you ever called emergency telephone number? If no, why ? Haven't you ever trapped in the situation like emergency ? You probably calls your friend or relative. I have a good experience with emergency call on Police 100 and medical 108 in Ahmedabad, they do appear in time, Medical emergency comes in 3 to 8 minutes and Police might come in 10 to 15 minutes and that's a good appearance. (Better late than never.)

Only land-line numbers are valid to call for emergency, the cell phone won't work to call emergency help (Something is better than nothing ) and you must provide your name and proper address to get proper services. On road accident or any other medical emergency, it's best idea to call emergency number instead of calling friend or relative because they give treatment immediately as they appear.

Every Indian hesitate / hate to enter in police station even if he is victim and need to file complain due to wrong attitude of police men. However, if you call emergency number for trouble, it is like online complain, your complain will be registered with Police Commissioner Office and immediately your complain will be forwarded to local police station. The situation must have to reported by local police station to Police commissioner office in time and this really helps you if you are in trouble.

Central Govt of India designate 108 as the national emergency contact number for Police, Medical and Fire emergencies. But I dial 100 for police and Fire Emergency, I know is 101 and you should checkout medical emergency number for your city either 108, 104 or 102.

Odour

: Smell, whether fragrance or offensive ;
: Chemicals dissolve in the air ;
: a substance a effecting sense of smell either pleasant or unpleasant ;

The morning walkers in Sardar Patel Institute, Drive In Road, Thaltej, Ahmedabad, found nasty smell coming in air while walking particular area couple days ago and now that smell becoming stronger and more pungent. On the walking track (actual road) have around 20 street orphan dogs, they are feed by some of walkers and canteen inside the campus. That nasty odour belongs to the one of dog's dead body, died couple of days ago.

Sardar Patel Institute is managed by Central Government of India and the walkers use the roads that has been developed by them and the employees of that institute have put the sign for walkers. ( It's about walking times in white board and Black board translation : Instruction - Walkers are being inform that they should not bring their vehicles inside, By Order. )

By Order ? who made this order for whom ? Is that the language Central Govt. employee should use ? Why don't walker mind the language like ' By order ' ? The dead body of that dog is lying behind the sign board.

Nobody cared to remove that dead body, neither the employees of Institution nor the animals and birds lover, I see every morning on the track to feed the animal and bird. The Local Authorities, Municipality will not take care as it is inside the campus. More than 700 walkers come to these place for walking in the morning and evening, while passing to that area make their face disgusting of smell and hold their nose. I hope within three or four days the smell will disappear.

Unforgivable

: To refuse a pardon for an act, offence, debt or crime ;
: To withhold pardon to a person ( to stop a person to repeat the same act again )

Are some action unforgivable? There are certainly some mistake we do, can't be undone. But do you believe that there are some offence so great that we should refuse to pardon. Right now, Mohammed Ajmal Amir Kasab sits for the death row, awaiting execution. Pakistani Kasab was given the death penalty on five counts: murder, abutment to murder, waging war, criminal conspiracy and committing terrorist acts for involvement in 2008 Mumbai attack. Reading his story that he is from small poor town of Pakistan and in lack of money and for the sake of his family he did these acts, made me wonder whether this is unforgivable. Because it seems to me that putting someone to death, execution, means his actions are truly and literally beyond pardon, beyond forgiveness, not allowing a second chance.

I have made small and big mistakes thorough out my life and in fact, we all continued to make mistakes. These mistakes hits with emotional pain and financial loss and so we do not get second chance to repeat the mistake. Our mistakes are either financial or quarrelling with word is not same as killing the people with gun.

Though Kasab has been pronounced guilty, the Indian law provides a chance for him to challenge the decision in higher courts and prove himself undeserving of the sentence. He can also plea for clemency from the President of India and these all procedure will delay in execution of penalty. The victim of Mumbai attack are awaiting for Justice. Justice delayed is denied. Don't let the cockroaches come/ live in our house.

Guru

: A teacher and guide in spiritual and philosophical matters ;

: A expert of particular Industry ;

' Mr. Guru' that was how US President Barack Obama greeted Prime Minister Manmohan Singh during the Copenhagen Climate Summit. Why Obama spoke that word for Manmohan Singh ?

• He learned a new word from dictionary, which he need to speak.
• Obama showed the degree of respect he has for Indian leader.
• Obama wants to make better relation with India since US finds trouble from Pakistan and China.
• Obama know the real fact that Manmohan Singh is highly educated person.

Guru -a word is origin in India as a teacher for Sikh, Buddhism and Hinduism. How it is used recently in India ?

• Guruji - for the spiritual leader.
• navjot singh sidhu use this word for no reason.
• Friends use this word to praise each other's expertise in particular field.
• 'Guru' A Hindi movie directed by Mani Ratnam and stars Abhishek Bachchan and Aishwarya Rai. The Movie concept was original from Late Sri Dhirubhai Ambani "Reliance Group"
• Another new movie coming very soon "Mr. Guru".

Iniquity - अधर्म

: Absence of Moral or Spiritual Value ;
: A deed of injustice / unrighteousness / a sin / a crime ;

Yesterday, Saturday night at 12 night I prepared to sleep after watching movie on local channel of Ahmedabad, I heard big sound of music played by next Apartments residents. Since the songs (Indian Hindi and Gujarati Bhajans) were played by music system, music was pretty good. It was Bhajan by famous singer Pankaj Udhas ( I forgot the songs as I was annoyed with the music I don't want to hear ) and music continued to 2 a.m. in Mid-Night. At 12 I found my self lucky as they haven't called local singer to scream on mike with cheap kind of untrained musician. But now it was time to sleep and I did not want to listen music and I was expecting them to switch off music.

What if the music played was Hindi movie songs or western music by teenager at mid night. Police would have come and turned off the music forcibly. Almost 50,000 people was listening that religious loud music in their beds. How many of them has disturbed sleep due to the music is questionable. But nobody complained as it become religious sentimental issue and those 50 persons were forcing 50000 people to listen music. Instead of music many have fallen into sleep, but unfortunate people were still waiting to end-up their religious programme. I wake up at 6:00 for jogging and I was thinking to disturb others sleep at morning 6:00 by bhajan, probably the 50 devotees right now over there will go mad in the morning.

'The Story of My Experiments with Truth' is the autobiography of Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi. He loves Indian town summer night instead of muddy and slippery roads and mosquitoes of monsoon nights. He loved summer nights especially because the town's neighbourhood have music programme of bhajans. In back 1930 and 1940 music was played simply by drum without any loud speaker or music systems and nights means maximum 9 or 10 o'clock at night. It was fine for that time but now over populated cities cannot face the late night music publicly and it's illegal because they have no permission from local Authorities.

Thought

: Thinking process of mind; :A product of Mental activity;

Mind keep on thinking, it never stops, even at sleepy night mind keep on working of it's thinking process. Lots of thinking process creates a thought.

What ever we watch, we listen, we talk enters into further process of thinking. Thinking process get mixed with our emotions like happiness, fear, angry, depressed and react on the process of thinking to be thoughts. Our every actions are the results of our thoughts. Either it's conscious or unconscious thought.

What's a different between conscious and unconscious thought. -Anything that we are aware of at a given moment about our thought and action is conscious state of mind. So, do we really slide to unconscious state of mind ?.

Are the thoughts in Control ? Do we need to think again ? - Lets weave a Thought.